How do we discuss sexuality with our patients if we don’t even know what it is and how it differs from sexual health? Sexuality is widely spoken about but remains somewhat of an elusive concept. The definition will be explored alongside the use of sex positivity as a framework to initiate, conduct and respond compassionately in conversations about sexuality with cancer patients and survivors.
Every non-judgemental conversation requires an attitude of sex positivity, the belief that all people have a right to engage in pleasurable, consensual and shame free sexual activity, with themselves and others, in a way that is right for them. Sex positivity also acknowledges every persons right to adequate sex education, an understanding of sexual health and treatment related causes of dysfunction. Implementing attitudes and practises from sexology and psychotherapy into our interpersonal skill set will complement the application of communication frameworks. The goal being to create a comfortable environment for your patient to honestly share their questions, concerns and real life experiences.